Are you a guy and you’re still in
love with your ex and you simply
can’t move on?
If you were already working toward
getting back together with an ex
girlfriend, learning that she’s
dating again can be devastating.
While most guys do give up at this
point, your chances of getting back
with her are far from over. If you’re
willing to be patient, think positive,
and put in some quality effort? You
can actually
Use your ex girlfriend’s new
romance to launch yourself back
into her life, getting her to break
up with or forget her new boyfriend
and start dating you again.
Personally, I think its cheesy to
chase after an ex especially if
she’s dating again but Who am I
to decide what’s best for you. Here
are some helpful steps to take if
you are trying to get her back:
Step 1 – Let go of your ex-
girlfriend
Before you begin taking steps
closer to your ex’s heart again, you
first have to let her go. While this
might hurt, it’s just temporary. If it
helps, keep reminding yourself that
you are working toward getting her
back, and letting go of her is an
important part of that plan.
Getting your ex girlfriend back from
another man isn’t something that
happens overnight. By not fighting
the break up, you’re refusing to
battle with her decision to end
things with you. By not running off
to stop her from dating this new
guy, you’re showing a level of
pride and maturity. Anything you
could say at this point wouldn’t
work anyway, so don’t say
anything. You don’t want to come
off as needy, jealous, or anything
like that – this will hurt your
chances of getting your ex back.
Step 2 – Drop back for a while
Leave your girlfriend utterly and
completely alone during the
honeymoon stages of her
relationship. Don’t call her, text
her, email her, or try to run into
her either. Don’t acknowledge her
new boyfriend, and don’t respond
to any calls or messages from her.
This step of the process requires
putting yourself back in her head,
and you can’t do that if you’re in
constant contact with her. By
disappearing off her social map,
your ex will wonder where you are,
what you’re doing, and whether or
not you’re thinking about her. Not
seeing you will actually make your
ex miss you – and this is an
important part of winning back her
heart.
Step 3 – Focus on yourself
Now that you have some extra free
time, use it in the most positive
manner possible. By working on
yourself, you can make yourself
look, feel, and even act better… do
it right, and your ex will be
astonished by the new you the
next time she sees you. Go to the
gym, take up running… when you
start doing all new things you end
up meeting new people. The
exercise will help you sweat off any
residual feelings of hopeless and
despair over losing your girlfriend,
and all that stuff will be replaced
with positive energy. When you’re
fit and toned, run out and get
some new clothes. A huge part of
attracting your girlfriend is
physically making yourself
desirable to her, but also mentally
having the confidence that all girls
love.
Step 4 – Wait out her break up
Most rebound relationships last
little more than a month. This is
great news for you, because if your
ex jumped right into this new
romance there’s a good chance
she’s in a rebound relationship.
And want some more good news?
The fact that your ex started
dating another guy again so
quickly after dumping you results
in her burying her feelings for you
instead of dealing with and getting
over them. This means that
somewhere beneath the surface of
her heart, there’s a lot of love still
left for you. Finding that love and
gently tugging on it can bring it
back out into the open, causing
your exgirlfriend to think about
you, miss you, and want to be with
you again.
As much as it hurts to watch your
ex with another guy, try to
concentrate on the big picture. In
the long run, you’ll be the one
standing next to her. There’s not
much you can do right now, so
don’t blow things by trying to talk
her out of dating her new
boyfriend, bad mouthing him, or
any of that jealous boyfriend stuff.
Stick it out, and wait for the
rebound relationship to invariably
fail.
Step 5 – Pick Her Up When She
Falls
When a rebound relationship
breaks up, more often than not it’s
the girl who gets hurt. When your
ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend,
she’s probably treating the
romance as a solid, concrete thing.
When it shatters? You’ll need to
be there to help pick up the pieces
of her broken relationship. She’ll
be looking for someone familiar
and safe – and that’s you. Your ex
will find comfort in meeting, talking
to, and being in your arms again
after a bad rebound, so be
prepared to play that role.
Another huge advantage: your ex-
girlfriend still has feelings of love
for you. She had little or no time to
resolve your break up, because she
jumped right into another
relationship. This is where you’ll
draw out those emotions and use
them to win her back.
What if her new relationship
doesn’t break up? How can I get
her back?
Occasionally, a rebound
relationship will stick for some
time. If this is the case, you’ll need
to learn an alternative strategy to
getting your ex back from another
man. There are some very unique
ways you can insert yourself
between your ex and her new
boyfriend, and then slowly win her
back from this new guy. They take
patience and effort, but they’re
also guaranteed to work. These
methods require you to do things
in a very subtle way, so that your
ex-girlfriend doesn’t entirely
realize what you’re doing… but in
the end, they’ll put her back in
your arms.
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